When someone asks me what I do, I tell them I stay home with my children and I'm not in the least ashamed or embarrassed. I have learned that most people who don't think much of stay-at-home moms (SAHM) don't know what's involved and how much a family benefits and appreciates what we do. My children are only young once; I can get job later. Sometimes when I tell people that I am a SAHM,they say "Oh, so you have no education?" (I have a BS degree and social work experience), or "No skills, huh?" (I used to write million-dollar grants and teach special ed). I am comfortable with my answers, but a lot of other people are not. They think my education is going to waste. I answer those people with "I'm raising my children, and teaching them. What better use of my skills?" I do realize that this is a personal choice and everyone has to decide what is best for their family. If you do place your child in daycare-please stop by unanounced several times before placeing your child. And PLEASE trust your gut if something feels wrong. If you are able to afford a nanny, or someone who only watches 1or 2 kids, that isthe way to go. The smaller the ratio-the more one on one attention your baby will get.
I know that my baby Logan will only be little a painfully short time and I want to be the one showing him the world. The bond we have is not for sale at any price. So am I angry or resentful? No, just sad that some people dont realize that in a time like this-Mommy does know best.
